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Signs of the Beautiful -Celebrating Hope

02.22.24 | Uncategorized
"Compassion is the radicalism of our time" -the Buddha

Beauty Heals in Troubled Times – Signs of the Beautiful

11.11.21 | Decorating Public Space

The Mathematics of Nature in the Most Unusual Places

06.15.21 | Design Principles

Collecting Objects – The Purpose of Things

07.30.19 | Space and Clutter
Candle with Pink Rose

Beauty in the Age of Extreme Politics

07.29.19 | Design Principles

22.02.24 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

Signs of the Beautiful -Celebrating Hope

Uncategorized

Since 2017, I have been on a mission to beautify our New York City building and change negative behaviors like vandalism, litter, and dog owners’ misbehaviors. I have written about my work on my website, rutas-rules.com. The most recent blog is “Signs of the Beautiful —Celebrating Hope.” Aside from creating beautiful gardens with our small building staff, I also made…

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17.02.24 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Understanding the Golden Proportion

Design Principles + Uncategorized

  Decorating for energy involves utilizing the mathematics of nature. I generally just use the blueprint of a circle or an ellipse which, despite its simplicity, is enough to bring Energy into an environment. Sometimes you might hear of the Golden Proportion as an example of the mathematics of nature. It is good to know…

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"Compassion is the radicalism of our time" -the Buddha

11.11.21 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 7 Comments

Beauty Heals in Troubled Times – Signs of the Beautiful

Decorating Public Space

For many years I engaged joyfully in decorating the outside of our New York City coop. Although the world seems to have gotten dark and darker, I continue to decorate because I believe beauty heals most everything. Recently, though, in my decorating ventures, I suffered one of the darkest times of all. Our building is…

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15.06.21 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 2 Comments

The Mathematics of Nature in the Most Unusual Places

Design Principles

I love to give paintings as gifts for birthdays and special occasions, especially impressionist floral paintings for wedding gifts. The mathematics of nature make up a major part of their design. I have an unfortunate attachment to these paintings, though, particularly the good ones. Still, the looming wedding or birthday dates force me to give…

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30.07.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

Collecting Objects – The Purpose of Things

Space and Clutter

Collecting objects can be healthy. Collecting is not always a sign of materialism but a means to finding the spiritual. When my young niece used to visit years ago, we would engage in “clawing,” one of our favorite yearly sports. We would visit the arcades, K-Mart and the local supermarkets to try our hand at…

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Candle with Pink Rose

29.07.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

Beauty in the Age of Extreme Politics

Design Principles

Beauty is a powerful tool, especially  in the age of extreme politics. One of my favorite books is Joan Kron’s Home Psych. Every page is a gem on the juxtaposition between decorating and all other aspects of life. She shares her experiences as a decorating writer who often finds herself in a defensive position with…

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26.07.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

Making ‘Curb Your Dog’ Signs’ – Signs of the Beautiful

Decorating Public Space + Problem-Solving

Making and displaying attractive curb your dog signs will be more apt to change the behaviors of dog owners and  protect and beautify your neighborhood. In my blog, Curb Your Dog – Signs of the Beautiful, I promised to help you create your own signs.  Some steps are a bit finicky. If you need help…

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Dog on a leash photo

25.07.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 3 Comments

Curb Your Dog Signs – Signs of the Beautiful

Decorating Public Space + Problem-Solving

When it comes to public space, decorating and vandalism are the opposite sides of the same coin. Both are trying to establish ownership. It is for this reason that our building cares for the public space between the building and the street curb. With this in mind, we plant flowerbeds, maintain tree guards and post…

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Sacred Geometry on multicolored swirling background

01.02.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 2 Comments

Let Your Eyes Have a Pleasurable Dance

Design Principles

In metaphysical design, the goal is to elevate us by receiving  energy and harmony in our environment.  One way to do this is to impose a geometric scaffolding in our designs. Upon walking into a room you should let your eyes have a pleasurable dance. A friend and prospective client recently sought my advice about…

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Graffiti image

01.01.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

School Vandalism – The Bureaucratic Community

Decorating Public Space

I began my teaching career in private schools in wealthy neighborhoods. In 1984, I changed to the public sector, however,  and started to teach in the inner city. Both violence and vandalism were prevalent in my first public school. I heard that a co-worker had murdered a cafeteria attendant while she was closing out the…

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I was raised by my beloved Polish grandmother who didn’t speak English. My name is Ruth but in Polish it is ‘Ruta.” Occasionally friends call me that today. The name conveys her warmth and love.

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  • Signs of the Beautiful -Celebrating Hope
  • Understanding the Golden Proportion
  • Beauty Heals in Troubled Times – Signs of the Beautiful
  • The Mathematics of Nature in the Most Unusual Places
  • Collecting Objects – The Purpose of Things
  • Beauty in the Age of Extreme Politics
  • Making ‘Curb Your Dog’ Signs’ – Signs of the Beautiful
  • Curb Your Dog Signs – Signs of the Beautiful
  • Let Your Eyes Have a Pleasurable Dance
  • School Vandalism – The Bureaucratic Community
  • When We Do Not “See” – An Invisible Line in the Sand
  • The Spirit of a House and the Angle of the Meander
  • A Smile in Every Room – Decorating for Joy
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  • Small Spaces – Decorating from a Metaphysical Approach
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